twerp talking to his brother

i've read that we should rise in love, not fall in love. falling in love is for the weak and only immature people "fall" in love because when you fall in love, you depend on the other person you've fallen in love with. i believe we have to be independent, with or without a partner. i mean, people don't love a person because he/she completes the other. it's just immature. you expect some incomplete person to complete the incomplete you..in that case, no one will be complete. you have to be complete without the other. rise in love. be complete with just you. be complete in God. i just don't buy the drama that you need someone, a person, to be complete. that's just plain absurd. i'm not against being in a romantic relationship. i just think that the two should rise in love and grow in love, not fall :)